Monday, November 2, 2009

Disgusting and WRONG!

Its just wrong. Another wife found out she was pregnant about 2 weeks after me. That puts her at about 15-16 weeks now. We were invited to their house for a Halloween party and I stopped dead in my tracks and nearly spilled my drink when I saw her smoking. Yes, SMOKING. Like, inhaling nicotine through a white wrapper smoking. Inhaling all sorts of poison and crap that's not good for you, me, or an innocent baby. Thank goodness I was wearing about 10lbs of eye makeup or I would have gone into the bathroom and cried at the unfairness. Its not fair that she's still pregnant and I'm not. But its worse that she's smoking. She's putting her baby's health in jeaopardy and doesn't seem to care that she's doing it. I'm disgusted and appalled. If I get invited to her baby shower I'm giving her nicorette wrapped in baby gift wrap. Really, how can she be doing this?? Does she not give two shits about her baby? And does she know that's what it looks like to people around her!

When I finally calmed down enough to speak I casually asked her husband how she'd done quitting smoking and he said "Oh, she's doing good. She only smokes a few a day now." When she told me she was pregnant she was smoking..She's had at least two months to quit now and quite honestly, more like three months and hasn't done it. If Husband saw me smoking while I was pregnant he'd be beyong mad and disappointed and he'd take the cigerette out of my hand- which he should!!! And so should her husband. I've lost all respect for both of them.

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